Thursday, October 29, 2009

SHRISHITY -Our behavours show our value matrix.


I have created this blog and named it as Shristi to thank God for all that he has given to me and my family and to share some of my thoughts over which I believe strongly which made me achieve things in trying situations.
God has created and given all of us space and time . How we make use of it and lead our lives is left to our choice.We are all created to serve a span of time on this beautiful planet and explore and experience the meaning of life. We all go through various stages of life from that of a small child to a fully mature person. During this period as we go through the various stages we experience the good and the bad and all these teach us something useful and we try to share these to our children and try to make them better than us and make more meaning to their life. This brings a total behavior change and create value to their life and prepare them to be a better person than us every day.Children learn a lot by seeing elders especially their parents and grand parents in the formative stages and it is important they are shown the right values in life to prepare them for a better life and as a better individuals to make a better world order.
We also in the process of learning change our mindset and learn new things and become a better person. Whether we learn from our own mistakes or the mistakes of others is a matter governed by circumstances. I find that we always consciously analyse and critically judge our actions internally from our own perspective, find some explanations to justify our actions. We make comparisons with the bad examples to justify a wrong action but seldom cite examples which we consciously consider are the right ones. Why this fear to acknowledge our mistakes ?-Ego-??
The real solution to the issues can be found only if we are truthful and honestly analyse our own actions in its true perspective unbiased from a third person's point of view; I would say then we come closer to accepting truth with concern for others feelings.